A pledge by EGR families

It takes a village EGR.

We're a community of East Grand Rapids families supporting each other in delaying smartphones and social media.

For all EGR kids Parent-led Stronger together
The Pledge

We pledge to

Delay smartphones until 9th grade, and social media until age 16.

*Watches and flip phones / dumb phones are A-OK.

Sign here!

What this looks like.

The what behind the village

01

Options

Watches, flip phones, and dumb phones are allowed. There are increasingly more options available, but the spirit of the pledge is to limit apps, internet browsing, and social media access.

02

Non-Binding

This isn't a binding commitment, and it's not about getting it perfect. It's simply a way for families who want to wait to support each other. Every family will make the decision that works best for them.

03

IRL Fun

This is not just about taking something away. We also want to create opportunities for real-life fun, connection, and independence for our kids.

04

Parent Organized

This is a grassroots effort created by EGR families, not an official school program. There are no "pledge police." If this no longer works for your family at some point, that's okay. Circumstances change.

Why this matters.

The why behind the village

01

Why Families Wait

As we all know, social media and technology can impact mental health, attention, academic performance, and overall well-being. This is not about saying "never." It's about introducing technology gradually and intentionally, and allowing our kids more time to grow without additional pressures.

02

Stronger Together

"I'm the only one" doesn't have to be true here. The more families that sign, the easier it becomes for the kids and parents in EGR. Collective action is what makes this work.

03

Make it Clear

Signing the pledge helps set expectations for your child and signals support within the community. Parents find that once expectations are clear, the pressure and requests for a smartphone/social media decreases.

One of the things we do together

Phone-free events.

Real-life fun, no screens required

Past · March 2026

Rollerskating Glow Party

March 1, 2026 · 5:30–7:30 PM

GR Skate · 14 52nd St SE

In the spirit of the pledge, EGRMS 6th graders skated, glowed, and ate their weight in pizza. Ticket covered skates, pizza, soda, and a cookie.

RSVP was $17 via Venmo to @karin-hoekstra
Past · November 2025

6th Grade Bowling Night

November 16, 2025 · 5:30–7:30 PM

Clique Lanes (upstairs!) · 533 Stocking Ave NW

A phone-free night with the upstairs at Clique reserved just for our group — snacks, pizzas, and 2 hours of bowling with shoes included. A whole lot of strikes (and a few gutters).

RSVP was $15 via Venmo to @Karin-Hoekstra

Got questions?

We'd love to talk about the pledge